Family Matters

Did You Screen It?

Because our family lives in Africa, it often seems like we are viewing much of the world’s happenings as if we were standing on the outside, peering in through a window from afar. Sometimes it’s kind of sad, because we feel so removed from everyone, and then other times we are thankful not to be bombarded with every fad that walks by.

From the look of facebook, it seems this weekend’s hottest topic for entertainment is the latest Harry Potter movie.  Apparently people stood in long lines to grab up tickets for the opening night. I couldn’t care less about Harry Potter.  I’ve not read any of the books and I certainly haven’t gone to see any of the movies.  However, when something causes such a stir, it does make me curious about what all the fuss is about, so I decided to look up reviews for the movie – Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows – Part 1.

From what I’ve read there are several scenes that are sexual in nature, including one in which a teenage boy and girl are kissing, with an insinuation that they are naked, with bear shoulders and backs showing.  I’ve read that there is “mild” profanity, as well as usage of deity, which I assume is using God’s name in vain.  From what I understand, the occult is a dominate theme throughout the movie.  These reviews were all I needed in order to determine that this movie is one that our family will NOT watch.

The movie industry doesn’t exactly have a pristine record for clean movies, so it seems that Christians would want to exercise a great deal of caution as they plan what to view for entertainment.  There are  resources online that give some pretty detailed reviews, so that we can learn ahead of time about the content of a movie.  In other words, we have the ability to SCREEN what we choose to see! We have the resources to make wise choices about what we put into our minds.

Okay, so you trusted the recommendation of a friend, and since they surely wouldn’t lead you astray, you didn’t do the research.  Now you are there, watching the movie.  Where is your line?  In other words, what do you consider to be too much as far as profanity, sexuality, etc.?  What bothers you? How much is too much? At what point are you willing to walk out of a movie? 

The movie Avatar made quite a stir, and as plans are being made for a sequel, there is a renewed interest. Some people (including some Christians) thought the movie was great.  Others were upset about the movie due to some pretty bold political statements that were anti-American.  As disturbing as those political messages may have been, Christians ought to have been more repulsed by the saturation of filth.  I prefer not to put it on my blog, but I suggest that you look at http://www.screenit.com/movies/2009/avatar.html and see for yourself.  Scroll down to the various sections labeled Imitative Behavior, Profanity, Sex/Nudity.   There should have been a mass exodus of Christians to walk out of this movie.  Did you watch this?  If you did go, did you stay or did you walk out?  Were you more disturbed by the political message than you were the profanity? 

Christians must remain vigilant.  There are so many occasions in which we are exposed to ungodliness; situations which are beyond our control.  A trip to your local Walmart or shopping mall will give you an eyeful and an earful of things you wished you’d never seen or heard.  It’s bad enough when we have no choice, but then…some Christians decide to be entertained by it.  Over time, ever so slowly, the senses are dulled.  Things that might have been repulsive at one time just don’t seem so bad now.  Sin just doesn’t seem so…so sinful.  This is all part of Satan’s plan.

Don’t let it happen to you!
Family Matters, In the Kitchen

Tuesday’s Tip

For Do-It-Yourself People

Since we live in Tanzania, there are some things that we are not able to easily obtain, or, if we can, they are quite expensive.  Lately I’ve not had any taco seasoning, and so have been on the hunt for a home-made recipe to make my own.  There is one store that I can buy little packets of taco seasoning here, but they are really expensive, and I really don’t want to spend $3 for a tiny seasoning packet.  I found several recipes for making a home-made seasoning mix, and I plan on trying one of them soon.

I am a cook from scratch person anyway, and I’ve been thinking that even if we lived in the States, there are so many things that can be made, such as different kinds of seasonings, laundry soap, etc. as opposed to buying so many things already mixed up and expensively packaged.  This is one way that we as homemakers can contribute to our family’s income, and not only can we save some money by making some things ourselves, but it can help your family be a little healthier in the process.

I’ve tried to find ingredients to make laundry soap, but I so far I’m not able to find what I think I’ll need. I have 2 bars of fels naptha, I can buy baking soda, but not washing soda, and I have not been able to find borax.  Does any one have any other suggestions for me?  I may try it anyway, using just the fels naptha and baking soda, and see what results I get.

Are there certain things that you make for your family home-made?  Soap, seasonings, etc.?  I’d love to hear what you do, or your ideas.

Here are some websites that you might find useful.
http://www.easy-homemade-recipes.com/
http://homemadelaundrysoap.net/
http://www.frugalicity.com/home-made.html

Have a great week everyone!

Family Matters

Happy Birthday Luke!

Twenty years ago I gave birth to our third-born.  Time has flown.  I remember November 13th, 1990 pretty well.  How wonderful it was to welcome another little one into our family!  Luke, at 6’6, isn’t so little any more. 🙂  Happy Birthday, Luke!

Chidren's Bible Class, Family Matters, Uncategorized

Principles for Successful Motherhood, Part 7

In this final article of this series, I want to focus on the fact that there are differences between males and females, and we need to appreciate that God designed it that way.  In other words: Sons and Daughters: Recognize Their Differences.  As we bring up our children, we need to let our boys be boys and let our girls be girls.

Boys need to spend time with their dads to learn how to be men. While moms do play a very important part in training their sons, the dad is one who will show his sons how to be a man. Our sons need male examples to learn leadership skills, so that they will learn to be effective leaders of their own families and leaders in the church. Boys need to be able to climb and explore and get dirty.  Don’t let your fears of them getting hurt get in the way. (within reason – 🙂 )  Bad behavior should not be passed over by saying: “boys will be boys.” Boys need to be taught to use their strength properly, and not abuse it. We need to teach them how to treat females, starting with their sisters and mother.  Boys need to be taught modesty and the importance of refraining from crudeness. While it ought not be their primary work, boys do need to learn how to wash dishes, do a load of laundry, and cook a decent meal.  It will serve them well if they are equipped to take care of basic needs, so that they do look like a rumpled mess when they need to take care of themselves.

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We need to cultivate in our girls the desire to be feminine, but not prissy.  We should teach them to dress like a girl, and to look like a girl. I find it sad when little girls look so generic that one wonders if they are a boy or a girl. Our girls also need to be okay with getting dirty sometimes. We must teach them to be modest, both in dress and in behavior. They need to learn that it is not acceptable to cry and whine in order to manipulate others. and that although hormones do make life difficult at times, they cannot be used to excuse sinful behavior.  They should learn that flirtatious behavior is not appropriate. Girls need to develop homemaking skills to enable them to organize and run their own home, so that they are well-prepared when they marry. Learning some basic home repair skills wouldn’t be a bad idea either. Who is the primary role model from whom our daughters will learn these things?  I don’t know about you, but for me, that causes me to give serious reflection about the example I’m setting for my
children.

Wrapping It Up
I’d like to close this series of lessons with a quote from a book called Homemaking, written by J.R. Miller:
“Oh that God would give every mother a vision
of the glory and splendor of the work that is given to her 
when a babe is place in her bosom to be nursed and trained! 
Could she have but one glimpse in to the future 
of that life as it reaches on into eternity; 
could she look into it’s soul to see its possibilities; 
could she be made to understand her own personal responsibility 
for the training of this child,
for the development of its life, and for its destiny,–
she would see that in all God’s world 
there is no other work so noble and so worthy of her best powers, 
and she would commit to no others hands the sacred and holy trust given to her.”
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Select a Godly Man
Understand Your Role
Cherish Your Children
Christ-Centered Home 
Exercise Discipline
Safe Haven
Sons and Daughters:  Recognize Their Differences