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Some Thoughts About Husbands and Wives

Today George preached a great lesson on the Responsibilities of Husbands and Wives. Unfortunately, the time restraints did not allow him to cover nearly as much as needs to be said on the topic, but for an introductory lesson there was plenty of meat for people to chew on.

One of the introductory points came from Romans 9:20:

But who are you, O man, to answer back to God? 
Will what is molded say to its molder, “
Why have you made me like this?” 

 You may be wondering:  What does this verse have to do with husbands and wives?  The point is this:  God is the Potter, we are the clay.  God is the Creator and He knew what He was doing.  He designed the marriage relationship as He knew what would be best for us, whether we understand it or not.

As I ponder the lesson we heard today, I would like to kindly suggest that many women, including women in the church, have a problem with God’s plan. I will admit that being in subjection is not always easy.  It is sometimes quite difficult.  But that still does not give me the right to question the Creator, as if insinuating He didn’t quite get it right, and it does not give me the right to preempt God’s plan.

I heard a woman “joke” about submission with a Christian brother, saying “We teach it, but we don’t practice it.” Oh really? I’ve also heard Christian women express outright their dislike for passages such as Ephesians 5:23,24 which teach that the husband is the head of the family and that the woman should submit herself to her husband. As a man thinketh in his heart so is he – in this case “as a woman thinketh in her heart so is she”.  Maybe you know better enough than to try to assume the leadership role outright, but what about being sneaky, or manipulating your husband with crying or emotional games in order to get your way?  Such behavior is not pleasing to God. If you dislike God’s plan for you, if you resent the fact that you ought to be in submission to your husband, then I can almost guarantee that you are not the submissive wife that God wants you to be and that you have some trouble spots in your marriage. 

Yes, I realize that men sometimes have their own struggles in the realm of being proper leaders of their families. However, that does not negate OUR responsibility to be a submissive helpmeet.  The ONLY time we have the authority to disregard the will of our husband is if he wants us to do something that is contrary to the will of God.  And even then, one’s attitude still needs to be godly.  In other words, God didn’t give us the freedom to be in subjection only when we think he has a good idea! 

Ladies, the world has painted a picture that is drastically different from God’s design.  When we compare ourselves to the world we might be tempted to think that we aren’t doing so badly…but the world is not our standard. I challenge each of us to do some self-examination in view of God’s plan in regards to submission.  How are you doing? 

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Life is About to Get Interesting

We’ve received word that Tanzania is going to have a major countrywide power rationing with no power from 8 a.m – 11 p.m. every day, from May 19-26, which means it’s supposed to start tomorrow.  Of course, it is a common occurrence in this country for there to be a major difference between what is announced and what actually happens, but we certainly must prepare as if it will occur. We are very thankful that we have a generator, which will help us out a great deal.  It will be a big inconvenience, but it’s certainly not a catastrophe.  It does make it pretty difficult for Luke, who is taking online classes.  Hopefully we’ll still be able to check in from time to time, to see how things are going for all of our friends and loved ones across the water. In the mean time, you all have a great week!

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Bible Class, Bamboozi, etc.

Yesterday afternoon George and I, along with Charles, who is George’s translator, went to a Bible study.  We’d been studying every Tuesday afternoon with one of the new converts of the congregation, along with several different neighbor ladies, but a while back Zawadi got sick, which landed her in the hospital.  Then she had to make a trip to Dar es Salaam to receive further medical treatment.  She finally returned to Iringa and yesterday we resumed our studies.

Zawadi lives in very rustic conditions.  She lives in a little mud building.  There is a small courtyard where people have their cooking fires.  We enter a small common room, via a rough doorway. It has no door.  The floor is dirt and the only light present is the sun shining through the doorway. After sitting for a few moments, our eyes adjust to the darkness. There are four doorways inside this common room two on each side. Zawadi rents one of the rooms. Another room is rented by Isabella and yet another is rented by Furaha.  We are not really sure about the whereabouts of any men.  From time to time Isabella and Furaha have joined in our classes.

Yesterday during the class I suddenly noticed some movement on the floor to my right.  A big rat had found it’s way in and tried to get inside Isabella’s room.  Then it came closer to me, and tried to get into Furaha’s room. then ran back again and then found a way to enter Isabella’s room. I hate rats.  I especially hate rats that come a little too close to my feet, especially when I have flip-flops on.  I will admit to having a little adrenaline rush on the inside, but I managed to be oh so cool on the outside. HA!

Toward to the end of our class, Furaha showed up.  She grabbed her Bible from her room and then sat down by me.  I hadn’t seen her for several weeks, and it was obvious that she is now heavy with child.  It was also obvious that she had been drinking.  I could hardly think of anything else for the remainder of the class.  Besides the fact that she reeked of alcohol, I could not help but think of what she is doing to the baby growing in her womb.

Sadly, Tanzanians have a great propensity for alcohol.  They have mastered the art of making alcohol from anything and everything.  In Moshi, where we lived for two years, there are many bananas grown nearby, and they make an alcoholic drink from fermented bananas.  The Massai tribe is well known for its corn-based liquor.  Here in Iringa there are many bamboo groves, and the locals make a brew from the liquid produced by the bamboo. There is a local name for it,  but our family has nicknamed it “bamboozi.”

After class, I asked to speak with Furaha.  I told her I wanted to speak with her “mother to mother.”  In very simple terms, I explained to her that when she drinks with a child growing inside, she will make the baby very sick, and that the baby might be born with problems that will not go away.  I told her that I loved her baby and that I loved her, and I begged her to stop drinking.  I spoke to her as kindly, but plainly as I could, with the hope that somehow I might touch her conscience.  Honestly, I’m not too hopeful, but at least I could walk away knowing that I had tried.  Furaha doesn’t need a government program or social agency. God’s Word is what she needs.

Furaha needs the gospel.  So does that elderly couple who live across the street from you… and the nice check-out lady at Walmart…and the belligerent teens that live down the road…and your mailman….and the person making those annoying soliciting phone calls…and your child’s teacher at school…and…you get the picture.  When it comes to the saving message of the Gospel, being silent is not the nice thing to do.  I know, it’s not comfortable…but we need to get out of our comfort zone and SAY SOMETHING.

In the Kitchen

Mother’s Day

Okay, I’ve got to take a minute to tell you how wonderful my kids are!  They are always so very kind to me, showing their love and appreciation in various ways.  Today was no exception.  Lindsey worked all Saturday afternoon preparing for a Mother’s Day breakfast, and I must say that she really outdid herself!

On the menu:
Quiche 
Crepes with blueberry filling, topped with cream and strawberries 
Fruit salad  
Hash browns  
Fresh squeezed orange juice  
Milk  

Keep in mind that it’s just generally more of a challenge here to put together such a beautiful meal.  (Some ingredients, for instance, cannot be purchased here, and so we’ve been saving them for a special occasion).

Before breakfast Jacob went down the road and picked some wild flowers for the table centerpiece.  All of the kids had prepared a personal card/note which expressed their love and appreciation for me.  As we were finishing up our breakfast, Lindsey disappeared for a few minutes and came back with her computer.  Julia and Lee had prepared a video to wish me Happy Mother’s Day and sent it to Lindsey to play for me at the appropriate time.  It was definitely unique. 😉

How could I not feel loved?  Thank you so much, Lindsey, Luke, Jacob, Julia and Lee – for making this a very special Mother’s Day.  Love you!